The most exciting things for them are the ones they are bursting to tell you. The take in a deep breath and then with wild hands and eyes they tell you almost slyly at first to see how you react.
" I jumped my bike off my brother's ramp!"
" I climbed soooo high in our tree that Mom was scared."
" I swam in the deep end of the pool all by myself"
Instead of chiding them that it's dangerous to do that, I always ask "How did you feel when you did that?"
Sometimes they admit that they were scared, or that it made them smile, or that know they know they can go higher or faster than then thought. During these summer catch-ups I'm reminded about the six types of risky play.
Categories
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Risk
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Sub-Categories
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Great Heights |
Danger of injury from falling |
Climbing Jumping from still or flexible surfaces Balancing on high objects Hanging/swinging at great heights |
High Speed |
Uncontrolled speed and pace that can lead to collision with
something(someone) |
Swinging at high speed Sliding and sledding at high speed Running uncontrollably at high speed Skating and skiing at high speed |
Dangerous Tools |
Can lead to injuries and wounds |
Cutting tools:Knives, saws, axes Strangling tools: Ropes, etc. |
Dangerous Elements |
Where children can fall into or from something |
Cliffs Deep or icy water Fire pits |
Rough-&-Tumble |
Where children can harm each other |
Wrestling Fencing with sticks, etc. Play fighting |
Disappearing/Get Lost |
Where the children can disappear from the supervision of
adults, get lost or alone |
Go exploring alone Playing alone in unfamiliar environments |
These kids are testing their limits and most likely would not have been given those opportunities if they were at school. It's always a fine line between letting kids engage in these critical areas of development and keeping parents and administration happy.
I take a look at our current play scape throughout the year and question how can we allow the kids to feel like they are away from adult eyes with teachers still able to make sure everything is okay.
I know as the year progresses the kids will gain more confidence in their abilities and begin seeking out new types of risky play. I hope I can create an environment for them that allows them to go home to their families, take a deep breath and then surprise them with a story of their strength and tenacity that will elicit the response "Weren't you scared?".
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